Phenon has had a persistent cough since the beginning of August. She was initially diagnosed with asthma; her doctor ordered an x-ray when she was nonresponsive to treatment. She had the x-ray on Wednesday, October 19 and the results led to a CT Scan on Thursday. After seeing the film from that – which seemed to confirm the presence of a rather large mass in, or next to, the right lobe of her lung – Phenon’s pediatrician told us to take her to Children’s Hospital right away. At Children’s, they have diagnosed her with classical nodular sclerosing Hodgkins lymphoma, a curable cancer. She will require 12 weeks of chemo, and possibly some radiation after that, but 87% of those who receive the chemo are completely cured and do not even need the radiation. The detailed description of the chemo is incredibly rough; it is going to be a really really hard 4 months. But it is completely curable, and we are going to kick its ass. It doesn’t have a prayer, and as far as I can tell, there are very few people on the east or west coast who aren’t helping us in very tangible ways and/or praying too. So there, lymphoma. Nobody likes you and nobody is on your side. Go away.
- Update by Julie
I couldn’t think of a clever title for this post – I think my brain may be a bit over-cooked. But I can feel the blog post timer counting down, and thought I’d better post an update tonight, inarticulate or not! I’m going to start with the lovely things. Rowan [...]
- Decision: Radiation by Julie
Thanks so much to everyone who sent us questions. It was very helpful. On Friday night, Shana (the attending doc) spent about 30 minutes on the phone with me talking through questions, research studies, hunches, and moral implications. As a side note, I’m extraordinarily impressed by Shana’s ability to make [...]
- Well, That’s Clear as Mud by Julie
We just heard from Payal. She said Phenon needs radiation. I have many, many questions before I feel like that’s a final decision, though. Here’s the deal: The PET scan result is negative! That’s a very good thing. It means the cancer isn’t doing anything. This is the clear result [...]
- Scans Done, Now We Wait by Tim
Since we haven’t updated since Phenon had to go to the hospital with a fever, I’ll just quickly say that she was back home two days later feeling pretty darn good. We’re not sure what caused the fever, but it didn’t stick around for long. So that’s a good thing. [...]
- Last Opportunity for a Chem… by Tim
A big day, today was Phenon’s last chemo treatment. It went pretty smoothly until she and Julie got home and then the fever started going up. We were pretty well set for Phenon’s usual habit of skating right under a 100 degree temp for an evening and then waking up [...]
- In the Home Stretch! Or Not! by Julie
It has been quite a week. We have had a lot of (capital “F”) Feelings this week. Whenever we have Feelings, it’s hard for me to write a post, so I’ve been meaning to write every day this week, but haven’t gotten to it. So, I’ve decided to try to [...]
- Forward motion by Julie
Remember how I promised to post here about a person you could send your donations to? Well, our friend Beth, whom we thought might need help, is doing fine – hooray!! She may not need a bone marrow transplant after all, so she said she doesn’t need the donations right [...]
- Taken care of by Julie
We have more than reached our goal now. More contributions have continued to come in over night, even. The thing is, you’ve already done it! We have been very, very well taken care of. A few contributors noted that we could pass the contribution forward if we wanted to, and [...]
- Wow. Just, Wow. by Tim
OK, so I just updated the thermometer to $7942 as a $20 donation came in just moments ago. The way things have been going the past week I’m sure that we’ll be at $8000 or close enough not to matter by the time I finish writing…wait…what? Alright, Julie tells me [...]
- Love and Thanks by Julie
We are really a bit a-flutter. You all have consistently, brilliantly, and impressively risen far above the call of duty to astound us with your love and support. I’m touched and tearful at the generosity of our supporters. Many of you have contributed more, despite having already provided us with [...]
- Victoria Nelson about UpdateI agree.
- Aliza about UpdateDon't we ALL really, really hate cancer? I know I do. Anyways, Mazel tov to everyone!
- Zoe about UpdateWhile I will always love Loiederman the most... My brother is an eighth grader at Parkland now and loves it! ...
- Victoria Nelson about UpdateGood news is amazing! And Phenon and I make a great pair for Artful Dodger. Congrats Rowan! He should have ...
- Chandra about UpdateThat is super exciting news for Rowan and Phenon! The timing for Rowan is spot on for him to lead ...
- Maureen about UpdateYou all have been very strong up to this point and have dealt with all of this in a positive ...
- Melissa about UpdateCongratulations Rowan-that is incredibky exciting news!! We can't wait to see Oliver in the spring. As for radiation and cancer ...
- Catie about UpdatePlease please please ask me any radiation-related questions! I may be able to help!
- Beth Pointer about Decision: RadiationDo it. Lets kill this shit for good. I hate it.
- Victoria Nelson about Well, That's Clear as MudWill it affect how much school she is able to attend?

julie and tim – can griffin come sunday? what can we do? what can we bring you and her?
so much love,
melissa, rich and griffin
Of course you’re on our minds – love the blog – pics GREAT – let us know if we can do anything! more later – Love J and C
Julie & Tim:
Wishing for Phenon and your family the best of diagnosis and a quick recovery!
Ron & Suzi Pearson
Hoping for the best results from the biopsy. You are all tough, stubborn and persistent. You will get through this.
Love-
B
Thinking of you all from Germany, and sending lots of love your way! Hang in there guys-
Len and Amy
Hi Julie, Tim, Rowen, and especially Phenon,
Just heard the news of Phenon’s diagnosis from Alison today. While we were so sad to get the information I am sure that you and your family will knock this down.
Although Mapleknoll seems a long time ago, Claire clearly remembers her time with Phenon. Especially during their second year. She said that it was the year of the rushed breakfast so they would have time to play before leaving for school.
As you enter these weeks of chemo, remember that you are not alone–we will be thinking, hoping, and wishing for you all every step.
Love Ann, Dave and Claire Taylor
that’s right, go the H-E-double hockey sticks away! tim i know the last thing you can do right now is to spend time thinking of how people can help, but please just be dry when writing about your wants/needs. we’d love to do something – help with laundry service, food delivery whatever. sending love and extra positive vibes! go phenon!
I’m thinking of you all and praying for Phenon’s kicking of cancer’s ass! xoxo Becca
Phenon,
We here at Forest Knolls and just about everywhere are so impressed with you and your family’s strength. One day at a time,chin up,we are cheering you on.We know it ‘s not easy..
Lots of Love,
the Faleders
I had Leukemia in 1987 and was treated at Children’s Hospital. I have been in remission for 24 years and have cursed cancer ever since. I have faith that your family will have the same victory. Phenon is going to be once fierce competitor. Best of luck and if you ever need a listening ear.. I’m always available
Kristen
AKA- Deedee’s bestest friend
Glad to hear to about the slow but steady progress. We check your blog infrequently, but you guys area never far from our thoughts and always in our prayers. Phenon…keep hanging tough with that “resolve” you got from your Mom. To all of the family…Merry Christmas!
Mike and Mia Loser
[...] this October, the unthinkable happened. Phenon was diagnosed with Hodgkins lymphoma. You can read the summary about her diagnosis here. The treatment is a 12 week course of chemo, but the prognosis is good. 87% of those who receive [...]